Tuesday, December 16, 2025

Week Fifty-One - Weep or Rejoice

Sometimes life is hard and disappointing. Our best hopes can fail, and we face a choice about how to respond. Will we weep or rejoice?
After seventy years of captivity, the Jews returned to rebuild Jerusalem and the temple, and as the temple's foundation is completed, the people rejoice, "praising and giving thanks unto the Lord; because he is good, for his mercy endureth for ever toward Israel" (Ezra 3:11). 

Yet while they are rejoicing, the older men are weeping; maybe because the new temple isn't as large and glorious as the first, or maybe because they are humbled to see God's promise fulfilled.

Mary and Joseph had big plans for their life together. The traditions of marriage were being followed to the T, and they and their parents had expectations of a beautiful new family. But one visit from an angel and that vision perished. It was gone, never to return again. Fear and hurt spread across their hearts as they came to understand their position. Yet both of these young people surrendered to God's vision for their lives, knowing He was in control.

Sometimes life doesn't turn out as expected. Our visions of glory are marred and dimmed, but God's vision is not. This second temple, though not as grand and glorious as the first, was still a reminder of His mercy and ability to keep His Word. This juncture with God brought the young couple much heartache, but also the fulfillment of God's promise.

I'm reminded of the word, nevertheless. Jesus said, "Nevertheless, not my will but thine, be done" (Luke 22:42). The disciples said, "Nevertheless, at thy word I will let down the net" (Luke 5:5). The Bible also says, "Nevertheless, the foundation of God standeth sure" (2 Timothy 2:19). This word is used over 100 times in the Bible. It means not to regard the situation but to proceed. It is a word of choice.

Our reaction is our choice. 

We can sit crying or put our hands to the work.
We can hold on to a hurt or surrender it to God.
We can wish things were different or graciously accept them as they are.
We can pine away in melancholy or seek to be a blessing.
We can weep at what is lost or rejoice in what is given. 

When life grows hard, what will be your choice?

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