What makes you quake? Tremble in your boots? Cry out in
fear?
Is it your
finances? Your marriage? Unruly children? Fear of the future? Inability to
control your world? Being alone with your thoughts?
Anxiety comes from
many sources and on various levels, but nearly all of us experience it at one
time or another. It can even be that little panic as you look for your keys or
as you put your debit card into the machine. It can be that odd feeling of
being watched in the shop or thinking a car is following you. Life is full of
these moments.
As we consider fear
today, I want us to see there are tools in our belt, weapons, if you will, to
combat this enemy. And fear is an enemy. It has a purpose in keeping us safe as
it warns us of danger, but it also oversteps its place as it seeks to control
us.
Peter wrote about
the qualities of meekness and quietness as a sign of a godly woman saying, “the
ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great
price. (1 Peter 3:4) Did you know that meekness does not mean to be weak and
mousey but to be without anger? And
quietness does not mean she doesn’t speak up, but it means she is not afraid,
she is confident and secured. Fear and
anger are the two most controlling emotions people face. So, let’s look today
at fear.
God knows we fear.
That is why He mentions it so often and gives us an array of assuring promises.
Let me share just three with you. Isaiah 41:10 “Fear thou not; for I am with
thee; be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will
help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.”
Isaiah 41:13 “For I the LORD thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto
thee, Fear not, I will help thee,” and Mark 5:36 “Be not afraid, only believe.”
The verse I taught
my children when they would wake fearful in the night, was Psalm 56:3
“What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” My oldest
daughter tells me to this day when she feels fear; she recites this verse in
her head!
In each of these
verses, and in every promise on fear, the source for release is trust and
belief in the Lord.
I was reading David
Jeremiah’s book, Slaying the Giants in
Your Life, and he had a great comment on fear. Here’s what he wrote –
“The opposite of
fear, you see, is not courage. It’s not trust. (1 John 4:18 “There is no fear
in love; but perfect love casteth out fear.”) The opposite of fear is love.
This verse captures that beautiful and powerful truth. As we’ve already seen
near the beginning of the chapter, 2 Tim 1:7 “God hath not given us the spirit
of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” There it is again –
fear versus love. I think parents understand this principle, for they know that
little children often wake up in the dark of night. And they’re afraid of the
darkness. I experienced it again with our oldest grandchild when he was an
infant. When he was staying our home, he’d wake up in that unfamiliar bedroom
in the middle of the night, and he’d begin to cry. It wasn’t just any kind of
crying, but an “I’m afraid” kind of crying.
You parents know what I mean? So,
what did we do? I doubt any of us would rush into the room and say, “Come on –
be courageous!” No, you and I are much more tender than that. We lifted the little boy in our arms, nestled
him tightly to us, and spoke softly with assurance. We told him we loved him
and that everything was all right. We helped him realize he was in a safe place
and that we were very near as he slept, even if it was dark. And that we would
always protect him. We poured in all the love we could until the fear was cast
out, and he slept in peace. That’s what God does for us when we call on Him.”
(p 15)
Isn’t that a
beautiful picture of God’s love for his fearful child?
When I walked down
the aisle to marry my husband, fear gripped my heart. Was I making the right
decision? Would things work out well? I made it to the front and looked into
his loving eyes. Fear left, and I made my vows.
When I faced that
awful news of cancer, there was fear. But there was also peace in my heart
because I knew my Father loved me. I was not alone. He was walking that camel
train with me.
So, today, whatever
fear tries to clutch your heart and gives you a rush of adrenaline, step back
into God’s love for you, calm your heart, and refuse fear’s grip.
Call out to your loving Father—He’s there!
“The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous
runneth into it, and is safe.” (Proverbs 18:19)
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